Cold just a drip drip today. Went out and the change of air helped with breathing. Legs still weak, but hey, it cold be worse.
OK - I know people try to help me with transfers, getting in/out of the car, etc. But man, I'm tired of getting physically hurt. Gil goes to boost me up, but is too forceful at times and causing pain to my back (his bear hug is really a bear). Someone tried to stablize me when I was sitting by holding onto my arm - They almost pulled it out of the socket. People - I know you have good intentions, but think before you do anything. Be more gentle. And imagine yourself in my place. God, I sometimes feel like a ragdoll. The bruises will heal with time, but as you can imagine - I'm a little skittish to ask for help. Maybe I need to beef up like Mr. America or Arnold. That way it won't hurt as much.
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I hear ya! There are times I just need a little help getting up off the couch, and my sons are just so strong, they don't realize that their grip is as tight as it is, and I end up being in pain.
ReplyDeleteThey really do mean well, but they need not hold onto us so tight right?
Try to take it easy. :)
So, sorry about your back. Maybe a lumbar cushion will help you keep your spine straight and will help your legs too. Ask your doctor about that it might help. We were so glad to see you yesterday even if only for a few minutes. Thanks for the roses....Think positive thoughts and do some deep breathing. We are praying for you. Love You
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